“How dare you challenge this poor, oppressed (or victimized) person?”
Hear that a lot? I do. Whether it’s daring to contradict some member of a so-called “marginalized” group or challenge the statements of someone who was victimized in some way (or was just present when someone else was victimized), doing so will raise strident objections from certain groups of people.
Those people are wrong.
The late science fiction (and pretty much every other field) writer Isaac Asimov reported in one of his autobiographies (sorry, no link, I read them in “dead tree” years ago) a conversation in which he explained to someone that there is nothing about oppression that confers virtue on the oppressed. Historically, people who have been oppressed are more than willing to oppress others when given the opportunity.
While the Good Doctor was speaking of tribes and nations, the same remains true on an individual level. Being a victim does not make one good or noble or wise. It does not confer expertise on any subject, not even the subject related to the victimization. No more does my being in a traffic accident make me an expert on automotive design.